I’ll never be that person that says, “just get over it already.” I think that’s one of the most insensitive hurtful things you could do to someone in pain or someone going through that healing process. See, as humans we need time but some require more than others and that is okay. I was once in a terribly toxic relationship, in the end I had found out I was cheated on. I can’t tell you how painful of an experience that was and it was like I had no one to talk to after about 3 months. Everyone was tired of me being hurt. Everyone felt I should have already moved on. It’s been about 2 years now and I still don’t believe that  the pain is gone. I still remember. I still get scared when someone wants to get close to me. I’m taking it day by day and I’m growing and learning. I’m doing my best. Please don’t let anyone but you decide when you’re over it. When you’re done grieving. It is not up to them. The healing process is exactly that… a process. Take all the time you need.


All my Love,


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