All the good things in my life were happy accidents.
I can’t express any examples for the life of me, but I swear it’s true. Everything I have that I love has come to me after I stopped looking for it, or while I was looking for something else.
I’m still looking for some things, like a way to monetize what I’m passionate about.
To quote the U2 song, I still haven’t found what I’m looking for.
And that’s okay, luv. You don’t need to have all the answers.
Sometimes it’s more fun to see what the wind brings you.
You are allowed to throw something out the window and move on.
It isn’t easy, by any means, but it is quite freeing.
Relax, breathe. Give yourself a break.
You are young, and there is nothing but time.
Your destiny isn’t going anywhere.
And who knows, perhaps your destiny is in a different direction from what you imagined.
Perhaps it will be painfully obvious once you free yourself from tunnel vision.
Perhaps it will be a deus ex machina moment, that comes out of nowhere and sweeps you off your feet.
Perhaps you were chasing a dream that someone else wanted for you.
All you can do is let go. 💜