My counselor has talked to me about this so many times. When people look at you and react to you, they are doing so from their “grid”. Their “grid” is made up of their experiences and beliefs. So sometimes when we want someone to react a certain way or say a certain thing and they don’t, we have to swallow our anger and realize that that’s just not in their grid right now. Grids can change over time with much training, but until people are willing and able to get that training, we can’t expect more from them than what they can give. I mean.. it’s kind of like asking a blind person to see simply because we want them to see. It’s not that simple. Be patient with the people around you; I’m not saying that the way they are acting is right, I’m just saying that it’s all they know. 💜

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